Receive It Well!

There are seasons in life where we struggle with appreciation. Some Octobers can feel that way for pastors. Some years I weirdly hoped to get through without being “appreciated” on the platform in the services.

An interesting irony of our awkwardness is that when we most desire appreciation, we are also least comfortable receiving it. Reflecting on it now, I wonder what that reveals about our hearts.

We must remember that healthy relationships are two way streets. Sometimes as pastors we want to give, serve, help & lead  but struggle to receive from those in our spiritual family. That is not healthy. Genuine affection should be both given and received.

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Pastor Appreciation Flipped!

1Cor 1:4 I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, 

What if the level of pastor appreciation you experience disappoints your heart? Few would admit they wish they could improve pastor appreciation. Most recognize the selfishness of that kind of thinking. Still, how do we keep from getting stuck on the dark side of pastor appreciation month?

I want to offer something for you to consider. This can’t be a gimmick. It can’t be fake. However, if you embrace this one thing in a genuine way, it will deepen pastor appreciation in your church culture.

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